June 17, 2015 Landon and I just celebrated our third wedding anniversary and continued our tradition of going down to the river and repeating our vows. We sat on a rock as the river flowed by and the sunlight sparkled … Continue reading
It happened like this. I was in the kitchen and irritated that Diane wasn’t putting things away the way I would. My thought was, “She should do it the way I do.” And I wasn’t liking her at that … Continue reading
We just celebrated the Fourth of July Holidays with Landon’s daughters and granddaughters and an extended family reunion with Landon’s brother Terry’s family. We had three generations swimming together in lakes and rivers, jumping off rocks and floating down … Continue reading
It is encouraging how the space of our relationship provides a mirror to show me when I am not connecting to Diane and others; when I retreat into myself or become isolated or controlling and short with people. A recent … Continue reading
Diane and I had recently had a great date and were happy with each other and our life. Appreciative and thankful. So why was I Grumpy and Irritated with little things that she did, using too many spoons, not hanging … Continue reading
Since my last blog, I have participated in two fulfilling activities. I went to Boston and won the Head of the Charles, my third rowing goal for this, my seventieth year and I attended a reunion of the 6-Day Course … Continue reading
Relationship Course for Individuals and Couples The domain of transformation at the level of the individual involves several dynamics: “waking up” by turning on the Observer Self, shifting from a victim or at effect stance in your reality to an … Continue reading
Landon and I are coming up on our four-year anniversary since we got involved. Some folks might call that a ‘new’ relationship and I can see how they could rate it that way. But as I said in a … Continue reading
I realize that part of doing these blogs is to chronicle what is happening in my life, whether I have seen the big insight that unlocks the pattern door or not. So here goes. After returning from Europe and … Continue reading
September 18, 2013 From the 19-Day experiment to the ‘rest of our lives’ journey in relationship. When I landed in New Zealand, February 15th, 2010, I had skipped Valentine’s Day when I flew over the international date line. That could … Continue reading